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Last week, I shared an essay about the so-called Great Lock In of 2025, a TikTok challenge encouraging people to pursue self-improvement goals. I contended that this trend is beneficial, especially for Gen Z, since taking charge of one's real life makes it easier to manage screen time.
In response, I received a thought-provoking comment from a reader. “The key challenge with this valuable goal Gen Z is aiming for,” he noted, “is that they often don't know what steps to take.”
He elaborated further:
“Many are pursuing trendy pursuits showcased by others, whether online or in person. When they swiftly discover these aren’t what they truly desire, they abandon those pursuits and jump to something new... this issue has plagued generations. However, Gen Z and the following age groups are exacerbating the problem by scrolling through social media in hopes of accidentally finding their purpose (or by waiting for someone to tell them what to do).”
This highlights one of the most deceptive defense mechanisms employed by modern distraction technology. By constricting users' experiences to highly curated engagement, these platforms create a warped perception of what self-improvement entails: toned gym enthusiasts, popular YouTube channels, and rigorous morning routines. Since these “shiny” goals are often unrealistic or unmaintainable, those eager to initiate change eventually lose motivation and retreat to the comforting numbness of their screens.
By distancing users from the tangible world, these technologies hinder their ability to break free from the digital realm. To truly succeed with the Great Lock In, we must address the issue of Great Alienation.
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Currently, I am in the early phases of writing a book titled The Deep Life. This book will delve into practical strategies for identifying what you want from life and how to consistently progress toward those aspirations.
At first glance, it may seem unusual for me to write this book, particularly since my primary focus has been on technology's effects and effective responses to them. Nevertheless, observing Gen Z’s challenges with the Great Lock In clarifies that this book's focus is indeed closely related to our devices. Overcoming digital distractions will necessitate a greater emphasis on enhancing the analog aspects of life.
Last week, I released an essay discussing the so-called Great Lock In of 2025, a TikTok challenge that encourages participants to address their self-improvement objectives. I ... Read more